Thursday, August 09, 2007

Absent fathers

BBC reports,"Black boys need positive role models from within their own communities to tackle underachievement, a report says. The Reach panel of experts, from fields including education and business, says too often role models for young black men include rappers who glamorise guns."
Nowhere does the BBC report mention the need for a father as the first and most important role model for any boy. The silence speaks volumes. At present the boys merely follow the example of their delinquent absent fathers.

Now on 21 August we hear sense from Straw. "The "continuing problem" of gang violence is due to the absence of fathers in black communities, Justice Secretary Jack Straw says.
He said young black men needed their fathers as role models, otherwise their development suffered.
Black girls from similar backgrounds had different attitudes and succeeded more than black boys, he said.
He was responding to US civil rights activist Jesse Jackson who said inner city violence was an economic problem. "

So reports the BBC. Jackson is an American problem.


3 comments:

mimi said...

The author of the BBC article apparently doesn't know that one way of deamning black male slaves was to call them boys. A black man was never a man. In the southern part of the US, it is still improper to call _even_ a black male youngster a boy. It is considered an insult.

misterscripty said...

As a person whose father was absent for much of my life, I can relate to the fact that it's hard to find role models that you can relate to. I don't think it's a black/white issue but more of a male/female issue. And as the divorce rate goes up and parents tend to live with their mothers more often (whether by court or dead beat dads or other reasons), boys have a difficult time adjusting and of course will turn to gangs since it is a place of masculine acceptance.

And to the poster before me, you completely missed the point. He IS talking about boys who are black, not calling black men boys. How did you miss that? It is because of fighting over small things like this that we in the black community never get anywhere even when we're presented with major issues...

ian121 said...

OK to the first poster, you COMPLETELY missed the point. He IS talking about boys who are black, not calling blacks boys.

Anyway as a person whose father was absent most of his life, it is very hard to find role models when you so badly need one. I don't think it's a black/white/race thing but a male thing. With the divorce rate soaring in this country & more children living with their mothers (due to courts, deadbeat dads or not knowing one's dad, etc.) no wonder our men are messed up and turn to gangs - the one place they find male acceptance. That's where the trouble begins. I don't know the remedy for this other than to watch examples of families that work well together &/or boys that have found role models elsewhere.

Thoughts?